What’s Gone Stays Gone : The Important Lessons from my 2025 Journey
What’s gone stays gone. A 2025 reflection on missing the small moments while buried in work, and the lessons learned from the road to Taiping and Kuantan.
What Walking Long Distances Taught Me About Patience
I learned something: I am not as patient as I thought. Walking does not offer quick wins. Patience is not just about waiting; it is about how you wait. It is about how you show up and keep moving when progress is invisible.
Why Sharing My Work Feels Like Sharing My Soul
Sharing personal work often feels like sharing one's soul because it embodies vulnerability, fears, and hopes. It's an act of courageous exposure, where creations are deeply intertwined with the creator's identity. This process necessitates overcoming self-doubt and the fear of judgment, ultimately fostering connection when the work resonates with others.
Manual Mode or Auto Mode?: Taking Control of Your Settings
"Manual Mode" living, inspired by photography, advocates for intentional choices over automatic reactions. By consciously adjusting our "settings"—like setting boundaries (aperture) and reducing reactivity (ISO)—we can slow down, increase presence, and create a more meaningful life, rather than just reacting to external stimuli.
The Day I Sold My Luxury Watch and What It Revealed
Selling a luxury watch revealed that true value lies beyond material possessions. The author, who bought it for perceived success, found it became a burden. The experience taught him that real wealth is found in family, health, and peace of mind, not in expensive items.
What if Your Life Is Already a Masterpiece, Just Unedited
Your life is an unedited masterpiece. Embrace its imperfections and appreciate the present journey, recognising its inherent value without constant revision.
Why Simple Meals Can Be the Most Beautiful
Simple meals can be the most beautiful, embodying nourishment and care rather than complexity. They highlight the creativity in restraint and the joy found in homemade imperfections. The piece encourages savouring and appreciating these moments, often reflecting a deeper love and effort.
The Joy of Shooting with a Single Prime Lense
Shooting with just one prime lens enhances creativity and presence. This approach compels photographers to engage more deeply with their subjects and to compose shots with greater intention. By working within the limitations of a single tool, it fosters a profound appreciation for simplicity, reinforcing the idea that less truly is more in both photographic practice and in life generally.
Why We Fear Being Alone
Our fear of being alone often stems from societal conditioning and a habit of using distractions to avoid self-reflection. Embracing intentional solitude is key to self-discovery and personal growth.
Why You Miss Your Childhood More Than You Think
Our longing for childhood stems from its uncomplicated freedom and joy, a stark contrast to adult life's demands. Reclaim this childlike essence by appreciating the present.
Why We Fear Boredom: A Mirror We Avoid
Our fear of boredom stems from avoiding self-reflection. We constantly fill time to escape uncomfortable truths. Embrace boredom as a vital mirror for self-discovery and clarity.
What If We Treated Time Like Money
Value time as a finite, irreplaceable resource, like money. Prioritise meaningful activities, say "no" more, and embrace rest, instead of mindlessly trading time for financial gain.
How Writing Clarifies Your Thoughts and Beliefs
Writing clarifies thoughts and beliefs. Putting ideas on paper forces organisation, revealing underlying beliefs and making abstract ideas concrete, helping you understand what you truly think.
What Walking Teaches Us About Our Future
Walking helps visualise future plans. The physical act clarifies goals and reveals paths, making it a mental rehearsal for what's ahead.
Compassion as a Catalyst for Creativity
Compassion fuels creativity. Overcoming self-doubt and linking worth to productivity comes from embracing self-kindness, creative walks, and creating for joy, emphasising enjoying the process over perfection.
How Chess Mirrors the Pace of Slow Living: Taking Your Time with Each Move
Chess mirrors slow living by emphasizing intentionality, reflection, and mindfulness in every move. It highlights the importance of pausing before acting, making strategic, value-aligned choices, and appreciating stillness. The article suggests applying these chess principles—like learning from mistakes and focusing on one task—to achieve a more deliberate life.
How to Align Your Money with a Slow Living Mindset
Discover how aligning your money with a slow living mindset can free you from the endless chase, bringing more time, peace, and genuine joy.
How Walking Saves You Money & Boosts Your Well-Being
Discover the surprising power of walking! Learn how this simple habit can save you money, reduce stress, and profoundly boost your overall well-being.